crossd picks up on things a profile never would. the places you keep going back to. the way your week actually runs. the things that matter to you without you having to say so.
that's what crossd matches on. and when someone fits, we make the intro.
no profile. no swiping. just text us — like you'd text a friend.
dating should fit into your life, not compete with it. crossd works quietly in the background so connection never becomes a chore.
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lifestyle over profiles
we learn from how you live, not what you tell us. your pace, your patterns, the things you'd never think to put in a bio — that's what shapes a real match.
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anti-app attitude
no swiping. no feeds. no checking in. crossd lives in your messages app — just text us like you'd text a friend. no download, no account, no new thing to open.
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you lead the way
you decide what to share, and when. nothing is assumed, nothing is required. the more you share the better the picture, but crossd works either way.
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grows with you
what you want changes. so does crossd's understanding of you — introductions stay relevant to where you are now, not who you were when you signed up.
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introductions with substance
when the timing feels right, we reach out with the context a friend would give — so the first conversation already feels natural.
questions.
how does crossd get to know me?
when you text us, we'll ask to connect to a few things — like your inbox — to understand how you actually live. you choose what to share, and we'll always explain why we're asking before you decide.
is there an app to download?
no. crossd lives entirely in your messages app. just text the number and everything happens from there — no account to create, nothing to install.
how do introductions actually work?
when we think someone fits, we'll text you with a bit of context about them — the kind of thing a friend would tell you, not a list of stats. from there it's up to you.
does the other person have to be on crossd?
yes — introductions are only made when both people are a genuine match. we're not sending you cold leads.
can i delete my data?
yes, any time. just email us at contactcrossd@gmail.com and we'll remove everything within 30 days.
terms of service (effective 12/05/2025)
welcome to crossd ("we," "our," or "us"). by visiting our website or using our services ("the service"), you agree to these terms:
1. you must be at least 18 years old to use the service.
2. by using crossd, you allow us to work with the information you choose to share, solely to facilitate introductions and improve the service. every request is optional and explained before we ask.
3. you own your data. we only use it to help you meet better people — never for ads, never sold, and you can revoke access at any time.
4. keep the community respectful. don't misuse connections made through crossd or compromise the service.
5. we may suspend or terminate access if the service is misused or guidelines are ignored.
6. we can't guarantee outcomes from the introductions we facilitate and aren't liable for resulting harm or loss.
7. we may update these terms as we grow. we'll let you know about meaningful changes using the contact details you provide.
8. questions or concerns? email contactcrossd@gmail.com.
how crossd respects your choices
crossd only learns from the parts of your life you choose to share.
every request comes with a clear reason, and you can change your mind whenever you like.
we use what you share solely to help you meet better people — never for ads, never sold, never shared without your consent.
when we ask for access, you'll always know what we're requesting, why it matters, how it improves your matches, and what stays private.
sharing more gives us richer context for introductions. sharing less still works — just with simpler signals.
to pause, adjust, or delete anything, email contactcrossd@gmail.com and we'll handle it promptly.
if you leave, we remove your personal data within 30 days.
for the waitlist, we only keep the contact detail you share here.
we may update this policy as we grow and will let you know about meaningful changes. effective 12/05/2025.